TJ’s school did a wonderful celebration for all the Mom’s for Mother’s Day. It was a “Mother’s Only” event and each Mom was treated to a breakfast of donuts, muffins and OJ served by their child in their classrooms. Each child recited a poem that they wrote to their mother in front of the class. TJ’s poem was so sweet.
It feels good to be recognized by your child for all the things you do for them. It especially feels good when that recognition is done in public. Leaving TJ’s school that morning, I began to worry about the up coming Father’s Day Celebration and how TJ would be included in it since it was “father’s only”and his father is absent in his life. I thought about the one little boy in TJ’s class whose mother did not make it for the celebration and how sad he looked.
Since his mother was not there, he recited his poem to all of us. By no means, did I want my child to feel like this for the Father’s Day Celebration and I stressed about what I was going to do. I decided that I would talk to TJ after school and get his thoughts on the situation.
2 o’clock couldn’t come fast enough and TJ wasn’t even in his seat belt before I asked him, “TJ, what do you think about the upcoming Father’s Day Celebration? How are you going to participate?”
Since I was driving, I couldn’t look at his face when he responded, but to my surprise he said, “I already talked to Mrs. B about that.” “Oh REALLY?” I was surprised!! “Yeah!
She said that the assistant principal could come in and sit with me.” “Are you okay with that?” I asked him and he responded that he was. [Read more…]