How to Feel Worthy After Divorce

Last Updated on August 17, 2023 by Lori Pace

Recognize that feeling unworthy is a false belief about yourself and then acknowledge it. Once we are aware of this, we can immediately start the healing process for change. If we don’t feel worth it, the outside world mirrors our feelings. If we don’t feel worthy of the things we want and deserve, we can deflect any good that might come our way without even realizing. 

It may not be possible to find a job that fulfills our hearts. Without finding partners who value us, we go on date after date. We are uncomfortable with how we treat ourselves and allow ourselves to try things that are not in our league. This all means that we don’t love ourselves enough or value our worth. The best place to begin is within ourselves

Claim Your Worth Because You Are Worthy

Start claiming your worth and recognizing your dreams. Find what will give you a little more energy. it’s easy to feel bored, uninspired, and unexceptional. Are you unhappy at work, then quit! Follow your passion. Make a decision. Take small steps. You will be rewarded by the universe!

Follow your passion
Every journey starts with the very 1st step.

You can change your circumstances and be worthy of your worthiness, no matter how difficult they may seem. There will always be reasons why it isn’t possible. Instead of focusing on the obstacles and the pain that the previous relationship brought to you, focus on how you can overcome them and listen to what your universe has to say. This is a love letter from the universe for you to read today. You can start small and build your confidence. As long as you are happy, everything else will follow your lead. You send the message to the universe that you are worthy of these things by honoring your dreams, pursuing them, and achieving them. In turn, you will feel proud of your extraordinary life and not be ashamed.

Be Yourself, Feel Worthy in Everything You Do

You will be the girl that girls admire for her confidence, power, and glow. Put on some heels and feel comfortable in your own skin. You will feel confident walking with your shoulders back, your beautiful face forward, and knowing that you are not like everyone else. The new energy you radiate will make heads turn everywhere. This will undoubtedly attract a new class of guy to you.

It’s Okay to Splurge a Bit

It's okay to be not okay
It’s okay to be not okay! Focus on yourself.

Get something to remind you of your sexiness. It doesn’t necessarily mean you have to buy the Louis Vuitton bag or Chanel bag you’ve always wanted, but it might if you feel that this is what you need. You can choose something as simple as a manicure, or as elaborate as a gorgeous crystal. Or you could go as extravagant as you like. It’s possible to choose the most materialistic option if you resist it. You have the right to enjoy the finest of things. You are worthy and deserve it. 

Our bodies are an expression of our souls. It should reflect who we are and what we believe. You can dress it up however you like. You can be the girl you used to envy, and not be resentful about it. Focus on yourself, and yourself only!

Lori Pace
Lori Pace

Lori Pace is a single mother of three daughters ages 7 and under. As a working mom from home, she balances kids, work and two crazy dogs with humor and love. Follow Lori as she honestly gives tips and advice based on her own experiences as a single mom!